Selasa, 14 Desember 2010
miss that girl
want it to be

Jika aku harus berenang di laut untuk mendapatkan apa yang aku inginkan,
aku akan belajar bagaimana berenang, dan aku akan mengarungi lautan itu.
Jika aku harus mendaki gunung tertinggi untuk mendapatkan apa yang aku inginkan, aku akan belajar cara memanjat, dan aku akan memanjat gunung itu.
Jika aku harus menyelam samudra terdalam untuk mendapatkan apa yang aku inginkan, maka aku akan belajar bagaimana cara menyelam, dan aku akan menyelami samudra itu.
Jika aku kecewa karena hal-hal yang tidak tampak seperti yang aku inginkan,
maka aku akan belajar bagaimana menerimanya, dan aku akan mencoba untuk menerimanya.
Setidaknya sekarang aku telah mengalami bagaimana berenang, mendaki dan menyelam dan juga bagaimana untuk menerima segala sesuatu yang berasal dari usahaku..
Kemudian, aku akan mencoba kembali untuk melakukan lebih baik. Demi apa yang aku inginkan…
Aku akan datang.. dan mencapai semua itu.. Semoga saja keinginan ini adalah baik… dan untuk kebaikan.
Confidence, Trust and Hope
Once, all village people decided to pray for rain. On the day of prayer,
all the people gathered but only one boy came with an umbrella; that's
Confidence.
TRUST
Trust should be like the feeling of a one-year-old baby. When you throw him
in the air, he laughs... because he knows you will catch him; that's Trust.
HOPE
Every night we go to bed, we have no assurance to get up alive in the next
morning but still we make plans for the coming day; that's Hope.
ALWAYS MAINTAIN YOUR CONFIDENCE
HAVE SOME TRUST IN OTHERS
and NEVER LOSE HOPE!
Never regret a day in your life.
Good days give you happiness;
Bad days give you experiences;
Both are essential to life
Loving Life With Optimism
Loving life with optimism is living with seeing more of the bright things in life. Positive reinforcement as a means of thinking can help a person look at life from a more colorful perspective. Optimism is an outlook in life with a view of the world as a positive place. In so doing, a wonderful life makes it worth loving.
Research in the sciences has shown that optimism can greatly affect not only ones way of thinking but also his or her way of life. There seems to be a lot closely associated with a positive outlook. Thinking in the positive seems to be strongly connected to one’s self-esteem. Positive thinking seems to help improve a person’s psychological and mental well-being. Thinking in the positive seems to help more people avoid becoming too affected by stress and by the problems that may come their way.
Not only that, it seems that positive thinking may also help keep the body healthy. Optimism has been linked to people with better immune systems and well-protected against certain ailments associated with stress. For some people, having a positive outlook in life can be quite challenging. But people may still be able to do it by trying to work hard on it.
One can be made to practice thinking positively over time. It is all a matter of choice really whether one wants to make optimism as a habit. One way that one may be able to start making positive thinking a habit is through positive affirmation. Affirmation is a means to try and reinforce a certain state of mind through various means. And in the case of positive affirmation, one tries to affirm certain positive beliefs and reinforcement in such the way as to influence one’s behavior as well as state of mind.
There seems to be an association between thought and action. What one thinks can actually influence what he or she will be doing. Thinking can also extend to influencing our behaviors and state of mind. This means that by trying to change one’s way of thinking, one may also be able to influence and change one’s behavior as well as outlook.
In the case of positive affirmation, people try to reinforce and establish such a state of mind through self-talk and undergoing some inner dialog with oneself. Regular positive self talk using positive affirmations can help influence a person from a subconscious level. As the subconscious gets accustomed to the positive affirmations, it is then used to influence the behavioral patterns of people as they respond and react to certain events in life. What positive affirmation does is to challenge and undermine the negative beliefs and replace them with positive ones gradually.
What is important in the process of loving life is that positive affirmations should be used as often as possible to be able to work. Its work on the subconscious level that spreads through a person’s behavioral patterns happens gradually. The positive reinforcement builds up and builds up until the mind perceives it as an inner truth and eventually is used to influence external behavior and reaction to certain situations.
#12, person i hate most
#12, person i hate most
# 30 days
30 DAYS
Day 2 — Your Crush
Day 3 — Your parents
Day 4 — Your sibling (or closest relative)
Day 5 — Your dreams
Day 6 — A stranger
Day 7 — Your Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend/love/crush
Day 8 — Your favorite internet friend
Day 9 — Someone you wish you could meet
Day 10 — Someone you don’t talk to as much as you’d like to
Day 11 — A Deceased person you wish you could talk to
Day 12 — The person you hate most/caused you a lot of pain
Day 13 — Someone you wish could forgive you
Day 14 — Someone you’ve drifted away from
Day 15 — The person you miss the most
Day 16 — Someone that’s not in your state/country
Day 17 — Someone from your childhood
Day 18 — The person that you wish you could be
Day 19 — Someone that pesters your mind—good or bad
Day 20 — The one that broke your heart the hardest
Day 21 — Someone you judged by their first impression
Day 22 — Someone you want to give a second chance to
Day 23 — The last person you kissed
Day 24 — The person that gave you your favorite memory
Day 25 — The person you know that is going through the worst of times
Day 26 — The last person you made a pinky promise to
Day 27 — The friendliest person you knew for only one day
Day 28 — Someone that changed your life
Day 29 — The person that you want tell everything to, but too afraid to
Day 30 — Your reflection in the mirror
well, let's see if i can make it through :D
who i really am
